Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Everybody Hurts (financially) Sometimes!


Things have been crazy lately. Found out my roommate left me with a massive electric bill to pay after moving out of the apartment we split. If you’re like me and live on your own, you know how tight money can be and how easy it can be to fall behind. If not and you still live at home, let me make a comparison.  Let’s say you work at a dog kennel.  You make 7.75 an hour. You really want a new pair of shoes. You have amazing taste and the shoes will cost you $120.00. So work 20 hours a week after school cleaning and walking the dogs to make roughly $ 145.00 after tax. But you have to pay back your mom for money she lent you to go on a trip last weekend and she knows you got paid.  So you skip the shoes and pay off your mom. That’s the real world in a nut shell.

 And this is the easy part. One bill that’s it, now try FIVE! Even I have it simple. Most grown people after the age of 27 have a house. That comes with a mortgage and property taxes and school taxes. Then if they have kids, that’ even more money.  Try adding student loans, car payments, paying to have your car worked on if it breaks down, fixing a problem with the house, taking a kid to the E.R., being sick and having to take time off work to get better….seems like Hell right?! So at this point you’re thinking to yourself man I’m going to stay/move back in with mom and dad! Well let’s get this straight, you’re on your way to growing up. Now it’s up to you to handle these things.  I learned this the hard way.

  But oddly enough as I’m stressing out about this massive bill due, God led me to Ecclesiastes 2 : 1-11. Solomon is talking about how everything is meaningless here.  How he had lived life and became wise and made money and bought all he could ever dream of and still wasn’t happy.

Have you ever seen MTV Cribs and thought “Man I’d kill for money to blow like that!”?  Well this guy had it. The bible says he was the richest man in land, flock, slaves, vine-yards and money in Jerusalem at that time. I have a teen bible and they figured his income was over $200 million a year. DAAAAAAAANNNNNNGGGGGG! Solomon even went as far as to say “I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure.” . Whatever he wanted he went out and got. But he still wasn’t happy. 

I mean if you’re honest with yourself and you think about all that money, ask yourself, would you be happy in the end? Besides paying off bills for life and giving your kids an inheritance, what is that much money good for in the hands of one person? Over time would you drift away from your family and friends? Would you let the money change who you are as a person? Did you ever ask yourself this as you’re watching Cribs, are they happy? Most celebs aren’t. They don’t look young enough, pretty enough, they aren’t dating the right person. All the money they have and their relationships with people don’t last over 6 months. Why? Simple, they put more value in material things then the integrity of their fellow man. Money and greed walk hand in hand in that world. It makes people very nasty and bitter.

Would you want that? People only looking at you as a bank account rather than a person wouldn’t be a great way to live. Solomon saw this. Even back then he saw what money did to people. It’s nothing compared to today’s world. 

So tonight as I head to bed, seeing as its 1:00 am right now, I’m not going to pray for more money. Just that when the time comes I have the money I need to pay this bill. Sounds good and very wise to me.

Song of the blog: Price Tag – Jessie J



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